Apparently through the discovery of my own need for self promotion and joining blog directories, I found that I got linked like here:
"And finally, to round out our list tonight the lovely Miss Erin sends me another link, this time to yet another poet living in Queens, a 20 year old college student known only as Uncensored Life who writes The Thoughts That Make You...And Break You: Poetry and Words Strung Together. A hard working poet, UL writes about life's experiences, presumably her own, and what it's like to live with them. I recommend you take in a bit of Uncensored Life for yourselves."
Wow that was nearly a year ago that I discovered that. And I was 21. 20 when they discovered me. Maybe if I kept up to things no one would have copied my work!